7 Guide to Become Great Dad


Not only the mother, the father's role in educating children was very large. According to Dra. Henny E. Wirawan, M. Hum., Psi, a father can be a role model or role model. For example, teach people how to be diligent in working. Dad also played the role of family funds as well as a keen observer from his perspective as a father.

CHILD AND FATHER LEARN 
Anything that can be a father in support of education when the child starts school? 
1. Accompany learn 
If you usually read the papers own father, now membacalah with the little one is learning. The existence of the child's father has been pushing for more serious study. If you need to ask, is the father. In order for children's learning process fun, avoid forcing way, scold or beat.

2. Give an example 
when accompanying children learn, should the father read books and newspapers. In essence, show that reading is an enjoyable thing.

3. Monitoring the learning hours 
This was done so that the child knew that she had an hour to learn, and learn according to the specified hour. Suggestions Henny, create a contract between father and son learn to be more serious child in learning.

4. Entertaining and Accompanying 
A father has a big role to entertain and accompany your child when they undergo a failure, rather than punish.

5. Monitor learning activities 
Although busy, Henny suggested that the father continue to monitor children's learning activities. How, with a short message or telephone. Throw the question, "There is a duty today? You kerjain her homework first, check later Papa."

6. Does not require a lot 
If it's your child not seminat with his father, do not be forced to a single interest. "The duty of parents only facilitated with appropriate tutoring the children's interests."
7. Pickup 
Before work, the father can spend time taking the child to school. On the way, invite children to the story of how events at school. If there is time, pick up the child home.

AVOID AT MAIN 

In the process of learning, Henny notice, do not make hit as the main weapon in educating children. "Use when it's the ultimate. The rest, do attempt to change the child's behavior for the better because of awareness rather than fear."

SUPPLEMENTARY SINGLE MOTHER SO IF 
For Indonesia, a lot of substitute father as uncle and grandfather. Single parents need not worry their children do not develop normally. Look for alternate characters that can emulate a child, both within the family, social or religious. 
Triwik Kurniasari

(Source: Tabloid Nova)